Listed below are some of the activities that may take place during a session. It is important that you convey to The Girls whether or not an activity is intriguing to you so that you find your ultimate subspace, so be honest! The Mistress has explored nearly every BDSM fantasy, kink, or fetish. Ask, if it is not listed below. Her personal limits are no bestiality, minors, blood play, breath play, blackmail fantasies, scat play, infantilism, roman showers, red showers, or brown showers. If you are unsure of the meaning of any of the following terms, email the girls listed at Rubysfire.com. The following activities are maybe added in light to liberal doses, separately or in combinations. They may also be omitted. All is done safely and within your limits.

Bondage: Caging, Chains, Chair, Cuffs, Gags, Horse, Leather, Mummification, Pallet Wrap, Saran Wrap, Rope, Spanking Bench, Spreader Bars, Table, Tape, Lacing Table

Corporal Punishment: Beating, Caning, Flogging,(MY favorite) Paddling, Slapping, Spanking, Whipping

Depersonalization: Ashtray, Chair, Doormat, Foot Stool, Toilet, Furniture

Humiliation: Confession, Domestic Discipline, Face Slapping, Feminization, Financial Abuse, Interrogation, Kennel Training, Medical Examination, Panty Training, Pony Play, Public Display, Shaving, Spitting, Verbal Abuse (NOT ONE OF MY FAVORITES)

Miscellaneous: Crushing, Food Play, Foot Worship, Nail Worship, Psychodrama, Smothering (Clothed), Trampling,

Role-playing: Amazon/captive, Babysitter/child, Bitch Queen/subject, Boss/employee, Goddess/worshipper, Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, Mother/baby, Teacher/student

Sensory Deprivation: Blindfolds, Dark Closet, Earplugs, Hoods

Stimulation: Catheters, CBT, Clamps, Clothespins, Finger Nails, Hair Brush, Hair Pulling, Wax Play, Ice, NT/TT, Neuro Wheel, Ointments, Play Piercing, Surface Play, Tickling, Zippers

We have included this information below for those who have never experienced BDSM or D/s erotica. Ruby's Girls gets a lot of interest from "vanilla" men and women and thinks some of this information will be helpful to you.

What does the BDSM emblem mean?

The BDSM emblem was created to be multifunctional and discreetly worn.To the "vanilla" in our society, who aren't so accepting of the lifestyle, it is seen as an attractive piece of jewelry. So, we can wear it without stigmatism. To other BDSM'ers,however, it enables us to voice our support of the lifestyle.

The emblem, however, is quite meaningful.

The three sections represent the various threesomes of BDSM. First, the three entities of BDSM itself: B&D, D&S, and S&M. Secondly, the three-way creed of BDSM behavior: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Thirdly, the three divisions of our community: Tops, Bottoms, and Switches.It is this third that gives meaning to the holes in each unit. The holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSM context.

"Though she bends him...she obeys him.
Though she draws him...yet she follows
Useless without eachother. "
Longfellow


However "together"and sane whole individuals may be, there remains a void within them that can only be filled by a complimentary other BDSM cannot be done alone.

If you noticed the similarities to the Ying-Yang, it is not accidental. The curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the hazy border between where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved borders here represent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S, and S&M.

The hard metal color of the medallion represents the chains or irons of BDSM servitude/ownership. The inner black depicts the dark side of the BDSM genre.


Just another quick public email response. Thank you for your inquires. I will try very hard to answer all questions left unanswered. I am just trying to handle this email madness. I only have 24 hours in a day and the book has taken up a lot of my time. Please bare with me. Thank you very much for your interest.
Ruby